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A Friends’ Preaching About Faithfulness and Acceptance

 So I was home last week, and I was going through my stuffs, and found the set of letters I got from a good friend. He used to be in jail and he would write to me a lot about love, family, friendship and God. He is a born-again Christian and I must say that I learned a lot from him. Let me share to you a part of one letter he sent to me when I shared to him about my past relationships and how I ended up getting cheated. It really fed my heart a lot and  made me a little more mature to deal with relationships, cheaters and faithfulness. SO I’m sharing this for you guys to take a little time and read it and might just learn and understand the same things like I did. xoxo

“People lose faith in their dream of the fairy tale, they lose faith that their dream of heroic intimacy and adventure is possible, and they close their heart, coz they know that a closed heart feels no pain. But they dont realize that the closed heart has to suffer from chronic pain for its entire life, coz its denied its sole purpose of giving. Closing a heart is very cowardly, and a closed heart starts to starve to death, so it starts trying to take from others, and others see the sickness working themand refuse to give, so its self-compunding problem. So if we’re hungry, we have to give, so that we’ll be fed.”

Somebody who says they need you isn’t thinking of you, they’re thinking of themselves, coz by their own admission, their heartis starving, so they’re becoming obsessive. Love isn’t needy, love is incredibly rich. When it has given everything it has, it gives its own life to save the one it loves.

Love fears nothing, coz there is nothing stronger than love. So if somebody is worried about somebody cheating on them, that comes from insecurity, and that dreaded implications of that act on their relationship. It’s not coz they love them too much that they’re scared to lose them, like they would like to believe, it’s coz they’re scared for themselves.It’s selfishness, and selfishness is the opposite of love.

Love is what asks you if you want to go do something, coz love knows you’d like to, and love wants to makeyou happy. Love expresses itself in many many ways, and follows no rules, except one; LOVE ISN’T SELFISH.

So fear is selfish, coz what does fear show concern for? Not that selfishness is always wrong, but fear reveals that a person is selfish in some area,so perfect love drives out fear. So if you truly love somebody, you can accept it even if they want to be with somebody else.

Love gives you the ability to be open and vulnerable, coz to love is to have the strength of invincibility. So what some people consider to be ‘vulnerable’, others dont, coz its selfishness that makes you weak, and love makes you strong. Selfishenss is scared,coz it needs what it obsesses for, so that reveals its weakness, coz it only exists by depending on the object of its selfishness.but love gives. So a person who fears being cheated on is acting out of self-centeredness, but a person who is strong enough to be mature in some circumstances has love.

 I don’t mean that we should be willing to tolerate unfaithfulness, coz even God in all his strength and mercy won’t tolerate that, and he doesn’t expect us to. But a truly mature person will understand that somebody who is so weak and selfish that they don’t care about the one who loves them enough to be faithful to them is unfit to be with.

But that’s no reason to be mad at them, after all, if they could choose to be fit, they would, and they simply don’t understand how to be what they shoulbe.

So the only healthy response to being cheated on is to go ‘Oh, I didn’t realize that’s where they stood, I missed the signs of what was in their heart’. And you accept them and go on being a child of righteousness. When you’re strong, you can accept the weak, coz you haven’t been destroyed by their weakness. You’re still who you are, and their weakness hasn’t changed that, they’ve only destroyed their own health a little more by their actions, not yours. So the strong have compassion for the weak. They love them.